In a perfect world, if I could choose the birth I wanted without needing to take medical issues into consideration, I would avoid being induced. I have never really had a non-pitocin-helped labor, my first birth -- I did go into labor on my own, but labor was progressed with the synthetic drug, and my last two births were fully-induced using pitocin.
Morning sickness can be the bane of many the pregnant woman’s first trimester, and for some women, the whole pregnancy. However, for some, it’s not just an irritant, but their morning sickness is so extreme that they end up in the hospital, often multiple times, and on many medications just so they can drink water without vomiting.
It is no secret that water is one of the best things for our body, yet many of us still find that we don’t drink enough during the day, leaving us open to dehydration. Even just being mildly dehydrated can cause you to feel tired and drain you from the energy you need just to get through the day, so you could imagine what being chronically dehydrated could do to your body over time.
After doing a lot of research, my husband and I decided to have our baby at our local freestanding birth center.
Have you ever been in a stressful or dangerous situation that left you with that clenched feeling in your stomach (and probably clenched fists as well), gritted teeth, a pounding heart, rapid breathing, and flushed cheeks? Most of us have experienced this feeling after a near-miss accident, a frightening event, or a fight.
When people advocate for natural birth, some interesting things happen in response. People applaud, people think, but also, people have a tendency to get up in arms about "how this promotion of natural birth is dangerous, careless, and disregards life-saving medical advancements."
That last one is what I want to address. Let’s first give a scenario:
“My doctor won’t let me go more than a week past my due date.”
“I’m going to try to have a natural birth, if my doctor will let me.”
“My doctor already scheduled my induction.”
Summary: Medically indicated induction -> 17 hours in Pitocin -> 4 epidurals -> C-section birth -> 2.5 days in Nicu -> no Breastfeeding latch -> extra day in hospital due to jaundice -> home.
While sometimes pregnancy isn’t planned, there are some very compelling reasons you should not leave it all up to chance. Even if you're not actively trying to conceive, if there's a chance you choice, it's wise to take steps to make sure your body would be ready for a baby.
Ah, family. A source of love, caring, comfort… and sometimes some absolutely horrible parenting advice. Now, don’t get me wrong – chances are what our grandmothers and even our mothers did were what doctors told them to do at the time, what science of their day believed was the best idea, or what was common knowledge among laypersons (even if it wasn’t true).